Hair dysphoria, trans issues.
I shaved my body until I was about 30. Stopping was a very hard to adjust to. However, these these days I no longer see it as an impediment to presenting as femme, nor my slow loss of head hair. But it takes a constant emotional reminder that we get to define what these things look like, which is taxing af. Thanks for sharing - it makes me feel less alone as well!
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